16-year-old Lola Kadas explains why it is important to relax and take time for yourself

‘It's really important to take time for yourself, to replenish body and mind.’
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July 11, 2025
Sometimes I just want to do nothing – and that should be OK

It’s the weekend. I don’t want to do anything except stay in my bed – no pressure to be productive, no plans and no stress.
With school and other social obligations, it is really easy to bury yourself in an overload of work and activities without even noticing it. A World Health Organization/Europe 2024 report – which studied 280,000 teenagers across 44 countries – shows that 63% of girls and 43% of boys feel rising school pressure and declining family support. Meanwhile, in the US, 27% of teens feel burned out, suggesting an increasing need to spend time relaxing and recharging.
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Upon noticing this issue, Gen Z came up with the trend of “bed rotting”, meaning to stay in bed for an extended period of time. This time is usually spent watching TV, mindlessly scrolling or simply lying in bed.
What is important to consider with “bed rotting”, though, is that it can very easily turn into something harmful. While it has become a big trend, its markers often coincide with some symptoms of depression.
For this reason, it is crucial not to take the term literally. The lesson to take away from the trend is to find a way that you personally like to replenish your body and mind for a short period of time. This might take different forms, like gaming, painting, watching movies, spending a day in PJs, etc.
The point of this is not necessarily spending time in bed, but rather acknowledging that it is valid and valuable to take time for yourself.
And most importantly, remembering that you shouldn’t feel guilty for not being productive.
Making sure that there is a balance between the time you spend relaxing and being productive is what the goal of this trend is. While it is important to relax and recharge after working, it is equally as important to do the work itself and making sure that the amount of time you spend “bed rotting” doesn’t start to interfere with your daily responsibilities.
It is easy to think that relaxing and doing nothing is “lazy”or a “waste of time”, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. By allotting time for yourself to regenerate your energy, you are ensuring that you will have the motivation to complete your responsibilities with focused intention.
The idea of “doing nothing” can often be stigmatisedand looked down upon, which is why it needs to be challenged. If we were to frame being “lazy” as something that is socially acceptable and needed, we would probably end up with a more understanding and balanced community.
It’s necessary to not only be “doing” things that recharge/relax/unplug you, but getting into the mindset that you don’t necessarily need to be doing something productive. Relaxation can allow the body to lower stress hormone levels, blood sugar and blood pressure. This not only physically sets you up for success, but also allows your mind to replenish itself.
So, the next time you feel overwhelmed with the amount of academic or social responsibilities you have, don’t beat yourself up about it. Just unwind and relax – you are investing time into your wellbeing and future success.
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Society Section Editor 2025
Budapest, Hungary
Born in 2009 in Budapest, Hungary, Lola has lived in Budapest and California, US. She is interested in music, pop culture, politics, and mental health, and plans to study psychology.
Lola joined Harbingers’ Magazine in the summer of 2024 as a contributor during the Oxford Pop-up Newsroom. After completing the newsroom and the Essential Journalism Course, she became a writer in the autumn of the same year, covering society and public affairs. Her strong writing skills and dedication to the magazine led to her promotion to Society Section Editor in 2025.
In her free time, Lola plays guitar, piano, and volleyball, enjoys going to concerts, and creates various types of studio art. She is also a fan of Taylor Swift’s music.
Lola speaks English, Hungarian, French, and Spanish.
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